But, I Am Afraid I Will Lose Control....

 by Christian Flint,  Master Clinical Hypnotist

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As a Clinical Hypnotist, I am amazed sometimes by the comments or questions I receive when I talk about hypnosis with others.  And, when I begin explaining hypnosis to others and ask why they have not tried hypnosis before, I surprisingly get the same few answers often.


One of the most common responses to my question, "Have you ever tried hypnosis before?  And, if not, why not?"  I hear most always in the Top 3 most common responses: "Well, I am afraid of giving up control to someone else."  Or, "I am afraid of what I might do or say while under hypnosis."  Or, "I am afraid of losing control."  (You get the idea.)


It's been more than 3 decades now since I first began using hypnosis for myself.  And, my experiences with hypnosis (Self-Hypnosis and otherwise) have always been pleasurable.  So, I do not even remember feeling apprehensive about hypnosis personally. 


Yet, I have heard this response (its variations) above more than a thousand times in the course of my professional career.  And, I have always wondered about the "fears" and concerns of others, regarding hypnosis.  Technically, I also realize it is mostly the "fear of the unknown".  People can often be fearful of things they do not understand. 

Many people are swimmers, for instance.  Some swimmers do not even remember the first time they swam or stuck their head under water.  For others, who took awhile to learn to swim, they might have been very apprehensive about learning to swim simply out of fear of having their head under water for any period of time.  That fear that it might be their "last breathe of air" can become so scary, that some never learn to swim at all.  The fear of actually "drowning", when someone has never even been able to hold their breathe and stick their head under water, can become very real and often intensifies with age.

I remember when I learned to swim.  Fortunately, my experiences with hypnosis (especially my first few experiences) were so pleasurable, I only looked forward to further hypnosis.  Yet, learning to swim became traumatic for me early on. It took me a couple of years to desensitize myself to put my head under water and hold my breathe for even up to 10 seconds.  The utter "fear" of drowning kept me from the literal enjoyment of swimming with my friends, for more than 2 or 3 years.  But, once I got past my fears, I loved swimming. I cannot now imagine why I had such intense fears initially of holding my breathe under water, which kept me from learning to swim properly. 

Hypnosis is much the same.  I reimagine now, when people tell me about their "fears" and concerns with hypnosis, my personal fears and experiences initially that kept me from learning to swim.  And, I have learned to take their fears and concerns very seriously, as "fear" (not dealt with properly) can sometimes have a reverse effect.  Simply talking about and focusing on your "fear" may not desensitize you, but actually more-so promote and intensify your fears, we know now.

However, proper desensitization and practice and trust-building, is the key.  Most certainly, anyone who has an enormous fear of drowning usually never goes near the water, such as a swimming pool, deep river or lake.  And, even when they are safely on land, and are watching dozens of swimmers all around them, playing and swimming safely, their "fears" of drowning still can be very real and intense, even though they are not even in the water.   

If you do have a fear of hypnosis, I have a recommendation for you that can help you over come your fear of hypnosis and "giving up control" to someone else.  I recommend buying a Guided Imagery recording or a hypnosis recording (hat you have heard a sample and that you feel comfortable with in the beginning. 

1.  Lay down or recline for a little while without it playing.  Get yourself as relaxed as possible without going to sleep.  However, keep your eyes open (if you wish) and press "play".  Play only a few seconds of the recording, then turn it off.  (After pressing "play", immediately put your finger on the "stop" button to prepare to turn it off.)

2.  You can do this as many times as you wish, playing for only a few seconds or a little longer.  Think LESS about what the facilitator or hypnotist is saying or asking you to do (in the beginning stages) and focus more on YOUR CONTROL of starting and stopping the audio recording. 

3.  This may go for very short amounts of time initially.  That is ok.  It may be hours, even days or weeks initially, even before you complete the whole recording, depending on how often you want to stop and start it.  As your first attempts may total only 1 - 2 minutes of the recording (turning off and on the recording) before putting it aside until next time.  You may do this before you go to bed at night (the best time). 

4.  As you learn to have "control" over the recording, realize how quickly and easily it is for you (initially) to turn on and off the hypnotist's' voice.  As time goes on, and you are more comfortable, begin to listen and follow the instructions and affirmations of the facilitator / hypnotist.  Over time you become more and more comfortable, knowing you have the ability at any time to turn off the recording. 

5.  Within a few days (on average) you will get through the whole recording, probably once or twice, at least.  Each time you listen (to the same audio recording, or multiple ones, if you so choose) you will notice that you can relax a little more, while maintaining control over the recording, as well as in how you are responding to it.  Remember, YOU are in control, ALWAYS and completely. 

Within a few weeks, I believe you will find listening to hypnosis and / or guided imagery recordings will become easier and more pleasurable for you.  The added benefits are the RESULTS that come from using hypnosis and guided imagery. 

With more time of listening to recordings (that you have chosen and enjoy), you may then want to experience hypnosis directly with a Hypnotist or Guided Imagery Facilitator (one that is able to design a session specifically for your needs). 

I am most confident, that with time and some commitment, Hypnosis and Guided Imagery will become very pleasant, fulfilling and rewarding to you. 

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Instructor's Note:

I have recommended this technique to hundreds of people over the years.  Many people use this technique to move past their fears and misunderstandings of hypnosis and guided imagery.  It is very effective.  For the patient, having the ability and feelings of control with no pressure of the hypnotists or facilitators actual "presence" makes a unique difference and has its advantages.  Many of my patients have taken this advice before calling me for sessions or even to create for them, personalized recordings. 

 

May I Ask You a Question?

(My Pet-Peeve, even if it is a form of politeness and respect.)

by Christian Flint

In only this past week, I was asked three times the above question; "May I ask you a question?"  This preemptive question of course, is a request to ask another question.  But, in truth, haven't you already asked me a question with this first line? 

I know I am probably over-reacting.  And, I was brought up with manners also.  But, it is difficult for me to not make a sarcastic remark at the time when asked this very question. 

I have analyzed often even the character and personality of the person asking.  I have accepted the fact that often the "questioner" is nervous and possibly hesitant to ask their primary question in the first place.  Nervousness can cause for a lack of analytical thought and can also cause one to lose common sense momentarily. 

In working, teaching and lecturing over the years I am finding this "pre-question" to become more common than less common.  And, I am quite disturbed by its prevalence.  It would almost appear that the questioner might be asking a favor of something that could be tedious or something that requires physical labor or exhaustive mental effort.  But, rarely does the answer to the actual question involve any real laborious thought or effort.

Another obvious consideration, of course, is when one asks a personal question.  Therein, it would be understandable, especially in mixed company, when seeking a personal bit of information from someone, that we ask their permission to ask.  However, even when you ask someone: "May I ask a personal question?", it hardly gives any evidence up front about what the questioner is about to ask.  So therefore, it is also a moot point to ask permission to ask a personal question when the one that is requested to answer has no idea in what subject or category of what personal information will be asked. 

And not one of the three preemptive questions asked of me in the last week actually was the question; "May I ask you a personal question?".  If so, maybe I could have better tolerated the preface of the matter. 

Why this all seems important to me is for our use of language and communication.  I am a firm believer and user of "Neuro-Linguistic Programming" (NLP).  Without getting too technical, it is how we utilize words and communication in our daily life.  One aspect of it is how to say more using less words.  Another aspect would be to more directly ask for what we want, instead of generalizing.   I have studied and worked with NLP since around 1990.  And, I have found it to be an incredible way to utilize better, the English language.  I have also found it to be an incredible help when utilizing it in personal relationships and business relationships.  It is also incredibly effective in the areas of sales.

Without realizing, I am constantly analyzing speech, including my own.  I often will go over my own wording when I am on the phone with Technical Support for a company.  I will listen to the syntax and acronyms used by the Technical Support Representative in order to work to better communicate the problem or issue I am having.  I do this to 1.) try to fix my technical problems more quickly and efficiently and 2.) to better understand the thoughts and communication of the support person, in the hopes of making their job (and my experience) even easier.

While this might be irrelevant, uninteresting and unnecessary to some, I have learned much more about learning and how other people "learn" by using different words, phrasing and syntax to communicate and better relate my point or problem in using this methodology.  Not only have I become a better learner by doing so, I have also become a better teacher.

Back to the original question.....  about the question.  "May I ask you a question?".  By NLP standards, this is a wasted request.  It serves no purpose technically.  As how is the respondent to even know what is about to be asked?   How will they even know whether they want to answer the question or not until they hear the question? 

Therefore, (and even for the sake of manners), I think it more rude to make an empty untelling request than to simply outright ask your question, personal or not.  Even if you are asking a superior at your job, at your school or in most any setting, it would be more considerate to very specifically think through your question before asking, and then ask.  Often being in a superior position in educational or work settings, I tend to actually prefer questions than for people to second guess my thoughts or intent.  But, over the years, I can finally vent and relate to you, PLEASE just ask your question.  You need not my permission to ask.  And, while I cannot answer for everyone else, I believe that most would agree, if they actually would think it through.  PLEASE, just ASK!

What say you, Mind Designers?  Any thoughts?

Creating Balance : (So, What's Your Sign?)

by Christian Flint

Over the years I have been somewhat interested in Astrology.  One of the most convincing arguments for me in believing more in Astrology was when I came across the standard (and seemingly reliable) definition of Libra, which is the star sign I belong to.  I found upon researching extensively that I am true in traits and style to the Libra characteristics.  It was uncomfortably accurate.

When most non-believers in Astrology read the various 12 star signs, they often conclude that any one of the definitions of characteristics and traits can belong to anyone.  They view it as though each definition is all-encompassing and could be considered accurate for all other signs.  While it is true, some star signs share some characteristics and traits with others, I maintain there is certainly some reliability and validity to the Astrology theory.

While there are many books by reliable and semi-reliable authors on the subject matter of Astrology, there still are solid historical records that have been standards for hundreds and even thousands of years.  The more historical the archive, generally the more accurate the information, in my findings. 

I certainly have never pushed my beliefs on anyone.  And most certainly, I have never tried to convince anyone that Astrology is perfectly reliable and accurate as a science necessarily.  But, I have brought about people's attention to their sign and the standard traits that are supposed to match.  I have been intrigued as I go through my family members and friends, noting their birthdates and how they certainly do often represent their respective star sign. 

Also, one must know that "traits" and "characteristics" are different than personalities.  One of the first things we must understand about Astrology is that it is not attempting to define a persons "personality".  It is much more accurate in defining the traits and characteristics of that person.  Once you understand that difference, it is usually easier to see the correlations.

For instance, a person might be an extrovert.  We might see them with a bubbly personality that often says things that only others might be thinking.  This is more of a personality style, than "traits" of the person. 

I have been able to see the traits and characteristics of people with the same star sign, while one was an extreme introvert and another (born two days apart) was an extreme extrovert.  To the common skeptic, the personality differences alone would cause them to cry "foul" on Astrology in general.  However, when I closely compared these two individuals' traits, they were surprisingly the same.  Both were clever, witty, charming, quick learners, slow to anger, devious (at times), stubborn, moody, calculating as well as many other traits and characteristics in common.  While these traits may have some impact on their personalities, it was not the cause of their personalities.  I am hoping now you can recognize more of the difference.

I told you all of that, to tell you this.......

As a Libra, our star symbol is the "scales".  We represent "balance".   And, it is true in fact, that when I am around other people, I often try to "balance" the conversation.  When amongst people arguing or disagreeing, I try to neutralize the disagreement and bring a peace and compromise between them.  When I investigate most anything, I tend to look at both sides of the argument; this includes politics, religion, business, and most anything that tends to have extremist views.  As well, I often put myself in other people's shoes, when considering their predicament or situation, before giving advice or possibly judging them unduly.  This is not intentional. This is truly a subconscious reaction and interaction on my part.  It tends to be innate and inherent in my traits and characteristics.  I was not raised to feel, believe or act this way.  But, I do.

As with any star sign, if you grow up with ONLY your personal traits and characteristics, you only know and understand those particular traits and characteristics which indwell in YOU.  Of course, to you, they will seem logical. They will seem rational.  This would make sense, as we see such extreme diversity in people, not only in our world, but even in our own neighborhoods.  One needs to look no further than social forums such as Twitter and Facebook these days, to see a strong diversity of opinions and personal preferences. 

And, when we do view these preferences and opinions of others, we often wonder how they could have ever reasoned their way through life to come to such unique and / or ignorant views and ideas (especially in todays world of extreme politics and religion).  By and large, Astrology could also explain why we do have such diversity of opinions and reasoning.  Even two people might have the exact same experience, but walk away with two different accounts of what happened.  Also, two people can hear the President of the United States speak, and walk away with two extremely different polarized opinions and interpretations of that exact same speech. 

Why is it that humans can be so incredibly diverse in their nature and views?  How is it that two humans can have totally different reactions even while receiving the exact same stimulus??

Answering these questions have been a part of my life for a long time.  As a Body / Mind Re-Educator, I often encounter people who are wrought with anxiety and problems: problems that often would not seemingly affect or harm other people.  And, it is my job to help them find resolution and / or solutions to those problems.

Also, I have the responsibility of creating self help products and therapeutic modalities that are developed to help most of the people, most of the time.  In handling this challenge, I have learned much more about human diversity.  It was a hurdle I never realized would be such a challenge when I first entered the professions in which I am involved.  And actually, this "hurdle" can often be a mountain of problems when I am working with a group of individuals and need to maintain a common ground with them to facilitate learning and change.

For the sake of creation, teamwork, understanding, professionalism and reaching goals, diversity amongst individuals can often be a good thing.  But, when it comes to bringing people together for social importance, responsible advocacy and accountability, diversity in humans and their unique reasoning can often become more harm than good.   This is much like our country today.  Instead of coming together to work on problems, Americans sub-group together only to blame others for the problems that our country and even our culture is suffering through.  Our country and culture now seems to be much more about blaming and anger than about finding solutions and working together for a greater good.

Again, I point out, that there must be a cause for such isolation of individual thinking as well as extremist polarizations and views of groups and sub-groups.

I use the previous sentence to make a point of how, even in desperate times, humans tend to hold on to their own hard-core perspectives, without opening their minds to any other thought or explanation, other than what they were brought up to believe / think.   As well, all of their life experiences somehow gets "filtered" into their own personalized unique ideology.  And, and anyone that challenges their belief or opinion only makes that particular human more entrained, loyal and committed to their personalized viewpoint, regardless of the logic, facts and reasoning presented that can dispel or disqualify their specialized point of view.

Is this mental deficiency?  Or, is this just human nature?  IS this normal?  Should this be normal?  At what point did personal opinion take precedence over facts, logical and rational thought?
As you can probably relate, you know of people in your own life now, that often cling to their own personal belief systems, even though there is no sane or logical reason for it.  As a society, we accept them.  In some cases, we feed their dysfunction and even give respect for their "freedoms" of opinion.

So, now we reach my dilemma.  Welcome to my world of research and work.  I develop and create self help products, do consultation and teach personal empowerment to people from all walks of life.

 And, as a "Libra", I find it validating and rewarding to help anyone overcome the obstacles that hold them back from achieving their goals and dreams.  I accept people from all walks of life.  And, I have learned even moreso to appreciate the diversity of the individuals of which I work.   And, creating happiness, satisfaction, improvement and "balance" in a persons life, is my primary duty.... and passion.

Until next time....................

What is the Meaning of Life??

by Christian Flint

From the HypnoTherapist's Couch

I recently began working with a new client.  As usual, I ask all new clients to fill out a questionnaire that describes goals they would like to achieve as well as any issues they may want to overcome.  Once we were on the phone for the first time, I noted to her that she had a large list of Goals. I asked her to be more specific and prioritize.

She laughed nervously and thought for a minute.  After a few moments, I rephrased my question more so and asked.  "If we had to tackle one problem or answer one question in your life right now, what would it be?"  Again with a nervous laugh, she immediately responded, "What is the meaning of life!?"

 

Certainly, her question was rhetorical and facetious, but I was happy she asked.  As this would be the starting point for what work we would do together. 

This is not the first time this question has been presented to me.  As well, it has been asked of me many times with different intent and purpose.  And, for years, it perplexed me like it does most people. 

But, as I have gotten older and wiser, I have dealt with a myriad of human complexities.  I have dealt with many people who have "lost their way in life".  That is often a reason why people turn to me.  And, it is best to hear answers and new ideas from someone who is objective and with a fresh perspective.

My client was surprised that I had an answer ready for her. 

I revealed to her that the "Meaning of Life" is not in a question.  It is more about what we will do with our life.  You see, the Meaning of Life is more about what meaning that we give our life.  We often search fruitlessly through life, trying to understand "why we are here" and what is life really about.  But, after observing humans and what we can accomplish within our lifespan, I truly believe that we are wasting time waiting for an "Answer".

You have the answer.  You ARE the answer.  It is up to you to give meaning TO your own life.  It is up to you to embrace what you have and what you have been given.  It is up to you to grow yourself.  Much like a plant, we cannot grow without being planted firmly in nutritious soil, getting fresh water regularly and healthy sunlight.  I doubt a plant ponders its own existence.  But, a plant wastes no time in absorbing rich nutrients from the soil, soaking up the fresh water and basking in what sunlight is offered. 

It is up to us to enrich ourselves.  It is up to us to make decisions and move forward.  If we sit and wait for arbitrary answers to questions like these in life, then we spend our time waiting and not "doing". 

After a few sessions with this client, I finally had her do a homework assignment that I sometimes ask of clients who are struggling with identity issues.  I asked her to write her own obituary and describe her life in a way that she would be happy to live and fulfill. 

 

I'll share with you what she wrote (by permission): 

 

"Here lies before you the body of Sharon (omitted).  She had three lovely children which she poured her heart and soul into for the first part of her life.  After pondering and searching for the meaning of life for the first half, she finally discovered that it was up to her to give her life meaning for the second half.  She realized that life is much more fulfilling when we stop waiting for answers, and just start living.  She realized living in fear and worry is a slow and painful death.  So, she chose to live everyday as a new beginning.  Sharon learned that she needed to be good for herself before she could be good for anyone else.  Learning that she can help herself and love herself was the greatest gift she ever received."

You see, everyone is on their own journey in life.  Sometimes we can get sidetracked.  Sometimes we reach one destination, only to set another course for a new goal.  And, sometimes we never really got started on that journey in the first place.  We can never reach our destinations until we take the first step.   

 

Certainly, we are not done with my client's goals.  But, this is a great start in understanding one of the most important questions we ask ourselves in life.  We can choose to wait for an answer, or we can just start living.  The choice is yours.

It's time for a cigar....  and, until next time.

"Design Your Mind" 

www.MindDesignUnlimited.com

Remembering Pioneers of Hypnosis

Mr. Earl J. Yawman, Master Clinical Hypnotherapist               
                                                                                             1924 - 2012

Age 88, of Jasper, GA died Tuesday, July 3, 2012 at his residence, following a period of declining health. Born July 3, 1924.

Mr. Yawman was the Founder of the Central Florida Hypnosis Institute.  He went further on to found the Florida Association of Hypnotists. He was also the recipient of the Certified Instructor of the Year Award by the National Guild of Hypnotists in 1996.

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Within my 25+  years of working in the hypnosis field, I have met many amazing practitioners.  I have learned so much from many of them.  Mr. Earl Yawman was no exception.  Mr. Yawman actually became a Certified Practitioner of Hypnosis around the same time I did.  He came into the field late in his game.  But, he brought a wealth of knowledge with him from a strong business and financial background. 
Some of his former professional experience included Territorial Sales for Exxon Corporation, being a Dale Carnegie Sponsor as well as working (and then retiring) in Florida as a former Account Executive and VP for Merrill Lynch (1974 - 1991).   Mr. Yawman had exceptional business skills.  We would spend hours sometimes talking about the psychology of sales and NLP (NeuroLinguistic Programming).  He became even more skilled in the concepts, development and design of sales upon learning more about NLP.  I was fortunate to observe and learn from his personal growth.

Shortly after his retirement from Merrill Lynch (1991) he approached me about making his first hypnosis recording.  He was quite excited as it would be in part, a culmination of his knowledge and experience within the business world, while meeting the current stress needs of the client.  As well, he wanted it to be a pioneering work that would precede and represent him well in his future endeavors in the field and practice of hypnosis.
Still being young and developing my own practice, I accepted his challenge.  My fledgling recording studio then (The Finest Workshop) was based in a one-car garage nestled under my townhouse. It was just a stone's throw away from the UCF campus and six miles from (what is now) Full Sail University.  The area was loud with local college kids who generally created as much unnecessary noise as Kindergarten children do, following recess.  My initial challenge, as always, was to keep the recording environment as quiet as possible (no extraneous noise) as well as to set the tone of relaxation and focus for Earl to generate his best performance.
I was quite surprised that a man with such hypnosis inexperience at the time, could be such a powerful presence on the microphone as well as produce such a strong caliber and tone for inducing relaxation.   It did not take long to realize that we made a good team and we both seemed to be in complete creative agreement as the recording and production progressed.

It took almost two weeks for his script writing as well as my creating a musical composition that we felt worked well to fit the recording.  It was also one of my first attempts at creating "Subliminal Reinforcement" on a recording.  While our age differences was considerable, it was a great experience to work with Earl. 

 

I still appreciate his complete trust and faith in me to engineer, record, and produce his first recording as well as create a musical composition that will live on as his initial pioneering work. 

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"Experience Hypnosis" with Earl Yawman (1992) is a great display of hypnotic enhancement that builds confidence, self esteem and personal power.  The script is powerful and guides the listener into a deep trance state only to construct an effective foundation for a rejuvenated and revitalized sense of self.   Earl's voice and pacing proves that he was born to do this creative and therapeutic style of hypnotic performance and seasoned level of work.

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While my hypnosis style was and still is a more modernized approach, Earl represents a highly respected breed of classical hypnotists that got it right.  Their slow, methodical technique and pacing is an undisputed skill that few hypnotists have acquired.  Many hypnotists work many years to develop and create a style and presence as natural as Earl Yawman was gifted with. 

This is my dedication to Mr. Earl John Yawman.  He was an extraordinary teacher to many.  He also was a great technician that truly took the time and dedication to learn and develop his craft.  We need more like him. 

 

I would also like to point out, that it is never too late to begin a whole new path or career in our life.  Earl was well in his 60s when he retired from Financial Services and Money Management.  Yet, he dreamed up a whole new life and career that carried him through another 20 + years.  If Earl could look back on his life, I firmly believe he would say he was as excited about his life and career in Hypnosis as much as any other point in his life.  You see, we can still "learn" from him, even through this day.

 

R.I.P.    Earl Yawman    (1924 - 2012) 

 

Your Friend,

 

Christian Flint

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I plan to post the photos of the J-card cassette (yes, cassettes - it was 1992 remember?) alongside this post soon.  If you have this recording, you are enriched.  And, you will probably attest to every word (and more) that I am able to describe Mr. Earl Yawman.

 

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Bridging the Gap

by  Christian Flint

I want to talk to you today about “Bridging the Gap”.  I am educated and trained as a Mental Health Counselor and in the field of Psychology.  Additionally, over the past 25 years, I have been studying in the fields of neurobiology, genetics, and social patterns that make humans behave as they do.  As a Professional Consultant and Body / Mind Re-educator, I am often working with people who want to change their behavior but cannot.

Today, conventional medicine only knows to give medications for your complaints.  But, medications do not generally change your behaviors.  Medications in general are used to lessen symptoms and reduce complaints of an individual.

I have met face to face with many doctors over the years.  When I do, I usually take the opportunity to ask them this question.  I ask, “In a nutshell, when you see a patient that comes into your office, what is it that you do for them as a Professional Service Provider?”

This question usually comes with some blank stares, but inevitably, the answer comes out like this.  “I try to build rapport with the patient, make sure we have the proper diagnosis for their condition or conditions and treat those conditions accordingly.”  My next question is:  “What do you consider your most common treatment would be for most of the patients you see?”  The answer is most unanimously “Medications”.

There is no shocker here.  But, it is meant to express the purpose of medicine and most licensed doctors today.  Medical Doctors study human anatomy, diagnostics and medicine mostly.  Medical Doctors have little to do with human behavior and understanding it.

But, when we have behavioral issues, mental health problems and symptoms, we can only think “Doctor”.  We are not well versed always in understanding what type of “Doctor” we need. 

Over the years, I usually get the patients that doctors have assessed, treated but cannot get satisfying mental or physical results.  They would be considered “the difficult patients”.  And, that is ok.  But, it speaks volumes to me in that it shows that doctors cannot positively affect or treat many problems and conditions. 

Doctors, over the past few hundred years, were considered almost a “cure-all” for patients.  And, especially when the invention of penicillin came along, within the past 100 years, that medication did mean the difference between life and death in many cases.  Doctors were the only ones licensed to dispense penicillin.  So, the “life-saver” connotation stuck with them.

This is not about disrespecting medicine or disrespecting medical doctors.  As a matter of fact, we greatly need them.  If you have a broken bone, it may well require a doctor to properly set it so that it can heal properly.  If you need a surgery, it would require a skilled surgeon to do it properly.  Medical science today is also most important FOR proper diagnosis.  Proper diagnostics is vital to understand the best treatment options.

However, there are many patients today, suffering from health issues that have tried multiple doctors and multiple approaches that are not getting the results they want or deserve.  Many patients are disheartened by going to their doctors, only to be given another medicine prescription.  And often, the side effects of medications are worse than the actual symptoms from their problems.  So, what can be done?

My years of study and experience has led me to understand much more about the “Anatomy of an Illness”.  I have also learned that the more educated a patient is about their mind and body, the better they begin to understand how to manage and combat their illness or problems. 

When it comes to patient knowledge, doctors can get frustrated because the Internet has changed the way that patients self-diagnose and present their illness to their doctor.  Doctors will often complain that patients “Read too much information on the Internet and improperly educate themselves”.  Doctors stress that improper diagnosis or improper or partial education on illness or symptoms can only make the problem worse.  A misinformed patient can be as detrimental, as good.  But, in most cases, doctors have told me they would prefer to have educated and knowledgeable patients than having to explain or re-explain issues to them.

For example; obesity.  Many of the patients that doctors see are obese.  Doctors hate to see this, because they know it can bring on symptoms of high blood pressure, diabetes and many other health risks such as stroke and heart attack.  Often, I hear doctors complaining that their waiting room is full of obese patients, who come complaining to the doctor about various problems such as gastrointestinal distress, headaches, joint pain, and poor sleep patterns which are all usually directly related to their obesity.  Often doctors are quick to point out that if their patient would just lose their extra weight, eat a healthy diet and get some exercise, most all of their symptoms will go away automatically.  And, this is true.  The doctor will complain that the patient is not “Bridging the Gap” from their complaints to their primary health issue.

So, in this case, educating and re-educating the patient seems to do little good.  As doctors will tell you, most of these patients do not take them seriously, until AFTER they suffer a stroke or a heart attack.  That is, IF they survive it. 

We are all “creatures of habit”.  We do what feels right and normal to us.  We daily and regularly condition ourselves to the life and lifestyle we live.  We take advantage of our options and make decisions that mostly appeal to us.  This is normal human behavior.  From what foods you select, to what television shows you watch to what hours you choose to sleep, you generally dictate your own life.  But, when we put our health, both mental and physical on the back-burner, it generally suffers the consequences eventually.

In “Bridging the Gap”, I like to present to people that there are many solutions to problems today.  In some cases, there are many more “solutions” than actual problems.  But, people do not know where to start on fixing their problems.  When I first see a client, I usually find that they have educated themselves on their problem somewhat.  Or at least, they have been seen by professional doctors who have medicated or given advice, but the advice and medication does not seem to be working for them. 

As a Professional Diagnostician and Scientific Observer myself, I immediately go to work on reverse engineering their problem.  You see, in order to understand how something works, we have to understand WHY it works (or does not work), in the first place.  We have to understand how it is supposed to work.  We must understand what is keeping the person from their goals or from a normal and successful way of life.  This may be a part of a mental illness or physical illness or a combination of both, but the doctor and / or patient has yet to make that connection.  Therefore, the problem is not getting better.

I will not lie.  Some of these problems are very challenging.   It often requires all of my focus and attention as well as my best knowledge, professional opinions and resources.  But, I like a challenge.  At the same time, I learn from each and every experience I have.  I am no stranger to difficult clients.  I am no stranger to helping solve incredibly difficult problems.  As an end result, each and every human deserves this special treatment.

It is often my job to offer the probability of the cause or causes.  But, most importantly, it is often my job to help bring about solutions and a treatment plan for the clients I see.  Sometimes, my treatment plan involves non-traditional approaches.  Sometimes it involves a treatment that the client has never heard of.  Sometimes, it is something that the client would never associate with a proper life-changing treatment.  But, as a Solution-Oriented Mind / Body Re-Educator, they are trusting and paying me for positive life change. 

To help clients learn more about their problem, I often have to get them to talk about themselves and their problems.  This includes past and often current issues and circumstances.  Also, I usually have to bring to their attention and consult them on things / behaviors that maybe they never connected before with their problem / issues.  In doing so, I am “Bridging the Gap” in their understanding.  Doctors are trained to “bridge the gap” medically.  I am trained to “Bridge the Gap” psychologically and in terms of behaviors and thoughts. 

When it comes to your behavior and thinking, there are many things to consider.  Also, then realize that the only way you can effectively change your behavior and thinking is if you WANT to change it.  In my education, training and experience I can tell you that if you do not WANT to stop what you are thinking, you will not.  If you do not WANT to change your behavior, you will not.  You may make an effort or exert some will-power in the beginning, but you will return to your old patterns of behavior soon enough, if you are not motivated to stop or change permanently.

In the past three decades, I was hoping to see both mental health science and medical anatomical science dovetail into a stronger union.  I was hoping that professional health providers would come together more to discuss and develop resources and treatments that would aide patients moreso.  I have seen the contrary.  Today, I see more alienated and frustrated clients.  I experience clients who are victims of limited resources in healthcare because of HMO plans and insurance.  The companies who control healthcare seem less concerned about successful patient treatment results than they do about meeting an agenda or protocol that justify payment or services provided.  As an end result, it is the patient that suffers.

With your knowledge and help, we can “Bridge the Gap” by learning more about ourselves and our own personal health.  You know more about yourself than a doctor can learn in 15 minutes.  And, while I have pointed out that medical science is very justified when administered properly, do not allow yourself to be alienated by a system that was supposedly set up for your best mental and physical care.  If you are not getting results, keep searching and insisting on it until you do.  You are empowered.  You have a right.  You deserve your best mental and physical health.

And, I am here to help you in the best ways I can.

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The Power of the Human Mind

by Christian Flint

I write and talk a lot on Mind Power and how powerful a singular mind truly is.  In most all cases, I am prone to giving examples of man's invention of flying.  I give examples of how we invented the capacity of human flight, and less than 75 years later, we sent men to the moon.  The power of the human mind is truly impressive.  

My primary job also, is to help people make positive changes in there life, as well as to motivate and give hope, focus and empowerment.  Not only is everyone worthy of hope, empowerment and self-esteem, we are worthy of understanding how we can affect the world around us.  Of course, I seem to take for granted that most everyone wants to use their personal empowerment in a very positive way.  

Recently, I watched a series on cable TV that gave me additional insight on the human mind.  Regrettably, this show was an historical account of some of the "greatest" and most memorable minds in history.  Most every time we hear their names, we cringe as sadness, terror and even rage fills our minds.

Without naming names, I believe the most important information I took away from observing this series, was how a human mind can also be utilized to create destruction.  It can be used to control people in masses.  It can be used to manipulate other empowered people to participate in mass destruction and population control.

As I watched the footage and depictions of the historical accounts, it dawned on me as to ask WHY people choose to empower themselves for complete control, power, wealth and greed over others.  Human suffering in our world today is actually more caused by oppression and war by other humans, than is caused by nature / "acts of God" and other atrocities like disease.  Human beings are responsible for more killing, oppression, societal degradation and human enslavement than any other entity on our planet.

It also occurred to me that if we would have chosen to focus ALL of our mind power and abilities on the betterment of society and well-being of human kind, I truly wonder how much further along we could be.  I think of all of the Mind Power wasted that has gone into personal empowerment for all of the wrong reasons.  These reasons are direct and indirect, but most humans agree, now and even from history, these acts were debilitating acts on humans, religious beliefs / values, cultures and societies who never asked to be disturbed, controlled or oppressed.

For me, my mind has always looked for ways to better myself and the world around me.  I find that enough of a challenge.  I have never felt the need to kill or even oppress others to obtain and maintain my stability in life.  Human suffering is far too tragic to ignore.  To think that mankind is its own worst enemy, is even worse.

I implore anyone that makes use of their incredible mental gifts and empowerment, to focus their abilities and personal growth on the good things in life.  We are responsible for ourselves first, and others second.  But, also our responsibilities to humankind still remain. 

I believe every human is capable of greatness.  I specifically enjoy helping those that want to make this world a better place.  But YOU have a choice.  You can empower yourself for the betterment of yourself and possibly mankind.  Or, you can empower yourself for selfish control and the degradation of humankind.  Obviously, we now make incredibly good historical records of it. 

I have certainly always pondered the "Yin / Yang" balance of humanity.  "For every Terrible Evil, there is a Wonderful Good."  I just wonder when we will realize that we have a "choice" in the matter.  That WE create this supposed "balance" that seems to be as much bad, as good.  We do, however, have control on these manifestations.

Without further philosophical indulgence, I remind everyone to take a strong look at the space around them and recognize EVERY thing that man has created or affected.  Realize the time, effort, fortitude and even the imagination it took to create that.  For better or worse, humans have massively impacted this planet and made an everlasting mark.  Our "footprint" on this tiny planet we live on will be recognized universally, evermore as time goes forward.

Put simply, the Human-Mind created all of this.  

How will you use your mind?

How will you empower yourself?

How will you leave your mark on the world around you?

You have the EXACT same ability, time and potential as anyone that has ever come before you that created the world you live in now.  Make use of it all.  Develop and create.  Imagine and grow.  This is one of your many talents and gifts.

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How Important Is Your Sleep??

by Christian Flint

As someone who has worked in the Health Care Industry as well as someone who regularly consults people on their personal health and success in life, I can not begin to to tell you how vital your sleep really is.  We spend one-third of our life sleeping.  Some people a little more, some a little less.  But the truth is, past and current research in sleep health shows that your body and mind require about 8 hours a day of sleep for optimum health and performance.

Research today concludes that trying to find ways around quality sleep is detrimental to your health overall.  While there are some people that can get 4 - 6 hours of quality sleep and feel refreshed and awake, there are multitudes that can get a full 8 hours or more of sleep regularly and not feel awake and refreshed upon waking.

Realize first, that regardless of whether you have sleep difficulties or not, you require regular sleep for optimum health.  Trying to circumvent healthy sleep and rest can almost guarantee mental, physical and / or emotional health problems later on.  And, the more your fight it, the worse the effects can be.  

Those who insist they perform well regularly in life without adequate sleep generally are fooling themselves.  Tests show that lack of sleep has the same effect on people that are under the immediate influence of alcohol or drugs.  The person has the perception at the moment that they are performing well.  But, in clinical trials, someone who lacks sleep often performs the same as someone under the influence of drugs or alcohol.  Sleep deprivation not only harms you physically but it also distorts your perceptions and memory.

Psychologically, one of the most interesting facets of mental health is the required neurochemicals that you create and secret in your routine day.  Lack of sleep can often inhibit or cause an increase in the manufacturing of these neurochemicals.  With this chemical imbalance, people will begin to force their normal cognitive behaviors as well as their thought process to appear normal.  In reality, the attempt at forcing yourself to think, look and act normal while being sleep deprived is only creating improper neuromotor pathways that can conflict with your mental and physical health.

Sleep impairment is directly related to many serious components of your health such as:

• Increase in Stress / Anxiety
• Weakening the Immune System
• Direct Impairment of Your Senses (i.e. vision, taste, smell, touch, hearing)
• Sugar Imbalance (diabetes or hypoglycemia)
• Organ Functioning (liver impairment, gastrointenstinal issues, skin health, etc.)
• Depression
• Memory / Recall
• Mood Stabilization
• Physical Performance

This is only a partial list, but you can obviously see that healthy sleep deprivation can impair your quality of life and overall functioning.

Sleep is probably one of the most commonly overlooked problems in health today.  Doctors and health care practitioners often overlook or neglect to investigate your sleep health and sleep practices.  While they know the vital information I listed above, most practitioners take for granted that you ARE taking care of yourself when it comes to sleep and getting healthy, restful sleep routinely.  They often base their consultation and diagnosis as if you know how to manage your sleep health.  But, do you really?

I have recently put together a Two-Disc set Audio Program that can greatly assist you with falling asleep and staying asleep.  Whether you have severe sleep disturbances or not, this program not only educates you on obtaining quality and restful sleep, it also gives you two tracks that can assist you in developing deeper, restful sleep night after night.

Quality sleep is vital for your overall mental, physical and emotional well-being.  Without proper sleep and rest, it is only a matter of time before your health declines prematurely and you are having to take many more steps to help your health problems.  Why not take a natural and preventative step in helping yourself now?

With regular quality sleep, not only will you feel better, you will look younger and more vibrant.  You will enjoy your days more, you will lead a more fulfilling life.  And, you will FEEL much better as a result.  Sleep is one aspect of your life that you can impact and truly help yourself.  Why not start now?

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Love....(and Other Neurochemicals......)

by  Christian Flint

I was reading the other day as I often do.  I was quite shocked when I came across a 2010 census statistic that gave the percentage of "single" people in the United States at 56%.  I was in disbelief.  But, as I sat and pondered my various friends and acquaintances I realized that percentage was even higher for persons I am familiar with.  And, from the letters and emails I get, people seem lonelier and more depressed than ever before.  Searching for "perfect and true love" seems to be at an all time high.

Times are changing.  I am a student of history and a collector of abstract and obscure information about sociology and cultures.  I recognize that even in this country, the USA, we have set a precedence for healthy, long term marriage in our society.  Uniquely however, Christianization and religious practices has helped define the popular foundation of monogomous relationships and marriage.

In the earliest times of history, as intelligence and communication advanced, men began to recognize the inevitable forthcoming end of their own life.  They also recognized their power to produce children, thus "heirs".  Once we established the ability for land ownership and wealth transference, heirs became the only way to preserve heritage and family, as well as pass what had been earned down to forthcoming generations. This was one of the best arguments for monogamy.

With pressure for men to sustain their own forthcoming generations, and women's innate desire to maintain a more monogamous relationship with a responsible protector and caretaker, marriage was formed.  While this may seem a methodical and idealistic theory, there is not one more popular or scientific today.

Over time, "love" became the common theme for dedicating one's life to a monogamous relationship.  Love made great stories, as the ideas and concepts of love and being loved, release the natural pleasure endorphins in the body.  These natural endorphins relieve pain, cause elevated optimism and happiness, as well as give the feeling of everlasting love, hope, joy, desire and pleasure toward another individual.  The neurochemical that creates "love" however, releases in only a picalitre at a time.  That is about one-millionth of an ounce.  It is a miniscule speck of liquid that causes some of the most influential emotions and decisions in our lifetime.

This amazing chemical that is made and stored in our brain and body, releases in such small amounts, that the volume each time would barely be visible to the naked eye.  That small amount, however, creates an overwhelming sensation to the mind  / body.  This neurochemical is powerful stuff.  And, most everyone wants it released within their own mind and body, it seems, as often as possible.

As someone that has studied neuroscience, I am often overwhelmed at how primitive the human mind and body really are.  We have made great strides and technological advances, even in my lifetime.  However, the simplicity of human needs and desires tend to predict and influence the types of technology that advances.  When I was creating Mind Design Unlimited, I would constantly ask people what things they would like to improve in their life, as well as things that "if" they had control over it, what would they "change" within their life.

Most people responded with "To Be In Love".  Or, I should say, most "single" people did.  Amazingly, there are drugs (external stimulants) to make us; more confident, more alert, give more mental clarity, to speed up our metabolism, to make us hurt less, and even to get to sleep faster, or to remain awake longer.  But, there has been no drug created to cause us to feel "love" exclusively.  (Ecstasy, most may argue, would be a close simulator, but it is not the exact same effect.)

The most amazing point about "love" is that it is seemingly a universal trait among humans.  We have the capacity to "love" unconditionally, even to extreme measures.  This feeling can last a lifetime, even between two persons.  And, this feeling can bond two individuals remarkably close for their whole life together.  This feeling can even cause another person to risk or give their life for another.  And, this feeling can create confidence, healing and unpenetrable happiness for the person that experiences it.   And it really is nothing more than a brain chemical that is responsible for it all.

Here at Mind Design Unlimited, I work to constantly understand the human mind; what changes it, what motivates it, what stimulates it and what external influences can be manufactured / produced to optimize it.  Yet, even with technology, when one understands the pure and absolute capacities of the human brain, you must stand back, take a breath and be in awe of what you are encountering, once again. 

Never underestimate the power of the human mind.  It truly is the most powerful resource that you own.

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From the Hypnotist's Couch.....

On this life's journey, I am always surprised by how we can learn so much from those around, as well as our most simple experiences in life.  To many, so many days run together.  And, as we get older, it just seems like the days go more quickly, and the time in the day gets less and less.  We all seem to reminisce about times past, and how life just seemed more "simple" back when......

In retrospect, is it because life truly was more simple, back when we were young?  Is it because the technological advances of our day makes it appear that life today seems more stressful and time consuming? 

The truth is, as we age, we tend to maintain memories, feelings and emotions that clog up our memory banks.  We get weighed-down by the emotions and feelings that tend to soak up our energy and our optimism.  While they say "Time heals all wounds".  I believe that without proper "emptying" and clearing out these emotional and mental "trash bins", we tend to carry alot of garbage and baggage with us through life. 

Scientists often compare our minds to computers and rightfully so.  Computers are the closest hardwired object that acts very similar to our minds.  It was completely dreamed up and developed by human minds, so why would it not act as one?  Clearing memory banks in our minds, is much like clearing out the "cache" or cookies that can sometimes slow our computer or cause certain software to not work properly.

Several years ago, I had a client.  We had tried several techniques to deal with her stress, worries and concerns.  We were not making the progress that I would normally feel comfortable with.  I was prepared to tell her that if we did not achieve some success today with our session, that maybe she should look for another approach to deal with her issues.  But, I never had to tell her that, thankfully. 

I noticed that she was quite left-brained in her thoughts on life and approaches to applicable problems and stressors.  After reevaluating her job, and job description, I found that she worked with computers daily in her professional life.  Actually, she had been involved in programming and had a degree in computer science. 

I had already had a few semi-successful sessions with her, I was willing to try another approach, and it was time to get creative.  She was well conditioned, body and mind to go into a deep trance state.  I asked her, once in trance, to run a "virus check" on her mind.  I asked her to be thorough and quick.  I told her to isolate any and all bad memories, stressors and information that had become useless and outdated.  I told her to take as many minutes as needed, but not more than 20, as that would complete the process.  I also asked that when she was done with the task, to raise her left index finger. 

About 8 minutes later, her left index finger raised.  She had not moved.  There was no REM, nor any ideomotor responses during that period.  I asked her if she had thoroughly "virus checked" her memory banks, hard drive and all.  She nodded affirmatively.  I then asked her to erase and completely clear any and all unnecessary data, and any viruses that had been clogging her mind or her "system".  She lowered her head a bit more, continuing on with her eyes closed.  I asked her to again, raise her left index finger when completed. 

About 2 minutes passed, and she raised her left index finger.  I asked if the task had been completed.  She nodded affirmatively.  We spent a few more minutes with imagery and affirmations, as I wanted to make sure she kept the few good bits, and completely let go and erased any and all harmful "data".  I then brought her out of the trance state.  I asked her what she remembered.  She said she remembered very little, but felt much more "clear-headed".  I asked her if she understood or remembered any part of what she experienced.  She said she only felt "lighter and more optimistic". 

I asked her if she felt like we had made any progress.  And, with the first time I had ever seen her smile, she said "YES, I feel as though I am released from negative emotions and many of the things that hold me back." 

We made another appointment in two weeks.  It would be her last, until she encountered another issue that she felt would require my services.  In that last session, we also discussed how much her life had improved since that earlier session from two weeks prior.  She still claimed she had no idea what I had said or asked her to do, but she claimed that her optimism in life had returned, and that many of her co-workers, friends, family and peers had commented on her positive change.

She noted that she was sleeping better and more soundly at night.  She said she was awaking in the mornings more clear headed and optimistic.  She claimed that the negative thoughts that would often immediately "jump into" her optimistic path of thoughts, were gone.  She said that she had started exercising again, had lost 5 pounds and was eating healthier foods.  And, most noticeably, she was smiling when she explained all of this, which was only the second time I had seen her smile. 

She asked me what I had done in that previous session.  I explained to her, and her jaw dropped.  She claimed she would never have dreamed of something like that.  It was so "simple", she said.  But regardless, it had worked.  In that last session, I taught her how to do the same "virus check" and memory clearing, as she was already well conditioned to work on her own with self-hypnosis.  She was quite pleased, and seemed surprised that was really all the "hypnosis" and suggestion that had occurred to make such an impact on her life.  I explained that sometimes the simplest things are the most effective.  Even moreso, she was already "programmed" by her pre-existing life and lifestyle and thought processes.  We just had to remove the "obstacles" that stood in the way of the positive things she was wanting and capable of enjoying again.

Now, about every three months, I do a "virus check" on my own mind and body.  I clear out any and all "clogged", useless memories, and I isolate, then dispose of any negative thoughts that may hold me back.  I do a thorough "cleansing" of any toxins on my body and I refresh my memory banks, with healthy and positive ideas and optimistic thoughts.  It really does seem to work.......  And, I learned it all in one afternoon...  in working with a client.  You see, there ARE perks to my profession.

It's time for a cigar....

Blog to you soon...........  Christian.

Is Money Now God??

Is Money Now God??

Being in the business I am in, I am constantly amazed in how we focus on things that either empower us, or disempower us.  While this is a "no-brainer" thought process or something most take for granted, I am in constant analysis and research on the fundamental basics of human needs, desires and empowerment.  Since people come to me for answers and direction, they expect answers and direction that manifests in results for their lives.  In most cases, people expect immediate results and benefits.     ...... I would too.

The challenging aspect of what I do is to get to the fundamental issues that keeps an individual from obtaining their goals.  Sometimes it is very simple to assess.  Sometimes, it is very difficult to dissect and confront.  And, since every human being is unique, almost all of their experiences and interpretations are quite subjective.  And, why wouldn't they be, if it entails how each person believes and experiences for themselves?

In offering those first two paragraphs as a basis, you now get to peek into my world and daily functions of assessing human behaviors, thoughts and philosophy.   It can be difficult.  While I do like a challenge, I often get caught up myself in the empowering and disempowering aspects of money and it being the only "resource" or remedy for  a problem in many cases.  Certainly, it began in this recession.  But now, instead of being able to move people forward in their lives, it turns out that much of my advice and consultation  is directed more towards how to keep people in their homes, or just to find money to pay for their basic needs such as food, gas, electric and so on.  As it turns out, most people today just want / need money.  Money seems to be the answer for most of their current problems.

Being the common thinker that I am, I cannot help but try to understand how and why people put themselves in the mental flux that they often end up.   Even for myself, I find myself focusing on the "financial basics" being covered before I can move forward in my life.  But, at what point did we empower "money" or the "Almighty Dollar Bill" as the essence and mainstay of our lives?  

Today, especially in the United States, without money your life almost comes to a halt.  Money provides for most all of our basic needs now.  50 -100 years ago, you had a small farm or garden, or knew someone that did, and you could often acquire food to sustain your life, fairly simply.  Common gardening knowledge, practice and space was amongst a family group, and could provide some basis for sustenance.  Also, carpentry knowledge could add an addition onto a house to provide for additional family members who had lost their home.  Survival instincts and capacities back then required different knowledge and abilities than most recent times.

Today, most people are looking for or taking an additional second or third job (if they can find it).  Many people are looking online for resources to assist in obtaining money.  For the most part, people are cutting back on expenses, trying to do without their normal comforts or luxuries in order to make ends meet.  Thus, money becomes the common denominator in self-empowerment in not just "reaching goals" but sustaining life today.

Again, my instincts go to work to find and understand how and why we, as humans, empower these small snippets of  green-printed paper cloth as the common denominator of our lives.  Today, without money, almost everything you have is at risk, as well as almost everything you need.  Mortgage (your house) / rent costs money, food, automobile, gasoline for the automobile. heat and electricity costs money.  And, if you have knowledge of  Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of  Needs, you realize that even the very basics today costs money.  At what point did we put ourselves in such a vulnerable situation?

People that are religious used to be (and most religious people still are) "thankful" for the basics; a roof over their head, food on their table, etc.  Thus, the family prayer consisted of naming and praising the basics and fundamentals that were present in their lives.  More than one car in the family was considered a "luxury".  Today, it is defined as a "requirement" to most households.  Electricity now "heats" and / or "cools" our homes, as "air conditioning".  That which was once a luxury is now a staple expectation in our lives. 

So, the things we used to be thankful for, the bare minimums, are generally taken for granted.  Today, we "need" a roof over our head, a car to get us where we are going, food to sustain our lives, and electricity to run our computers, cell phones and to provide heat or cooling to our surroundings.  All of these things today, are not possible without money.  

Most religious people in the past and of the day, claim that "God provides for our needs".  Today, it appears that only "money" provides for our needs,   God was / is generally given credit for any financial means or abundance, by religious or semi-religious persons.  So, if Americans are struggling with meeting the financial obligations of today's basic needs, does that mean that "God" is "teaching us a lesson"?  Or, trying to get us to appreciate what basics we DO have, instead of taking so much for granted?  You won't have to look far to find these sermons being preached in most churches today.  As well, many churches are preaching awareness of the "end times" because of these "signs" today.

I am not challenging religion as much as I am the things that we often utilize to "empower" ourselves.  We, as humans, should be able to  look beyond these small snippets of green colored paper cloth if we want to truly have happiness and fulfillment in our lives.  Instead of empowering things that "matter" to us today, we have obviously "empowered" a (semi-) tangible object (dollar bill) that other people control the value of , which in turn seemingly controls and dictates the happiness and fulfillment of our own lives.  And, to some, bemoaning money and its power is as insulting as bemoaning a religious person's God.  Me, attacking the "power of money" is as offensive to some, as attacking ones "Faith".  

Truly, living in these times, is a test of will, strength and survival.  But, who would have thought it would fundamentally rest on the shoulders of the dollar bill?  As, even persons of "faith" today turns to their God in prayer and in faith for "money" as to resolve the majority of their woes. 

Changing How We Think

So far, from this recession, I have learned alot.  In listening and learning from my clients' needs, I have developed a keener awareness of necessity and principle.  I used to practice the "Abundance Principle" which is based quite a bit from the movie, "The Secret".  It is where you teach others how to "attract" the things that they want into their lives.   Now remember, I said "want", not need.  While this worked well for a number of people, it is not practical to teach to most everyone now, because with human "basics" at risk, it is difficult to teach / train guided meditation, calmness and stress relief conditioning to people who are stressed about losing their home, car or even just trying to find a basic job that pays their bills. 

Today, I am progressively trying to teach how to find fulfillment in oneself and the "free" things and basics that go with life.   These FREE things are the rights of anyone.  Yet, we are constantly forced to believe that they are rights that either "cost" money or worst of all, have little to no value or consequence.  These are things such as physical health, mental health, sanity, love, personal empowerment, relationships, communication, atunement, nature, and the list goes on and on.  As, if we continue to create this "monster"  (money empowerment), then we are only feeding something that is eternally hungry, and never fulfilled.  As proven today, the dollar bill value goes way down, as the cost to most anything goes up, further and further.   We end up spending all of our time and energy focused on "money" and its empowerment, more than we do ourselves.  If you are not understanding this philosophy, then you are probably caught up in feeding this monster right now.  

In order to "learn" a new approach to personal fulfillment and personal success, you pretty much need to unlearn much of what you already know.  Because, you are "taught" from a young age, that most "anything of value" costs money.   In a Capitalistic Society, money IS power.  And, unfortunately it now means "Money equals happiness and fulfillment in life".  Money seems to dictate the hierarchy and empowerment in which you live.

 The truth is, money only has power, because we give it power.  If we begin to empower other things, then they will uniquely take on power in which gives us (individually and collectively) more empowerment, instead of giving power over to something that others own and have control thereof.   We need to begin to think "outside of  the box" if we are tired of living "inside of the box".  It is our "right" to do so.  Why not exercise it?

You see, if only the things we "want" or need in life costs money, then we are individually disempowered when there is not enough money to go around.  This clearly reflects that we are NOT in control of our own lives, and that someone / something else is.   This happens because we have ALLOWED it to happen in our own lives as well as in our society.  And, if  I am a "SELF-Help Guru", then of course, it is my JOB to find different ways to empower individuals or for them to find fulfillment and happiness.  So, that is what I do.

This is "food for thought", and there is more to come related to this subject.  My goal is to get you to recognize that YOU have the ability to change your life and the world around you.  Do not lose site of that empowerment.  And, if you need help with that, then that is what I do and through my company.  

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